It's all about how we take it depends on situations! If we feel guilty about any bad things, to get relief from that, we may tell reasons on Fate or God. It's not sin. But for our better growth, we should accept that, whatever happens in our life, that's because of ourselves only! Because, without our activities, nothing will happen to us!
For an example, To wake up we have to sleep first, to run we have to get ready first, to kill we have to decide first, to calm we have to get high first! Like these, without any of our activities, nothing will happen whether it's positive or negative! Also you should understand that, these all things have it's returns!
You may think that, if we keep silent mostly, nothing will affect us in life and we can live our life liberally. But it's a wrong thought! In fact to say, being silent, getting angry, criticizing others, praising others, annoying others, instructing ourselves or people and everything has it's respective outcome! We say it Karmas!
If you do a good things to people, then more good things will come to you. If you do bad things to people, then more bad things will come to you! Perhaps if you don't do anything to people, then the people also will not do anything to you! You will feel alone somewhere when needed!
So, don't blame anyone for your life happenings ever! Whatever happens, you should take responsibility of that! If nothing happened also, you are completely responsible for that! Because this is your life! You have to live your life! No one else will do that for you! Fundamentally to say, Good or Bad that happens to you, all are happening depends on your past, present and future activities! Take a bow!
Your longing desires are like unnamed blood cells which was mingled in your blood! Taking that particular longing desires from your blood is really a hardest thing for humans!
Because, from our baby life itself, we started to grow by seeing this world and people only. At that time, we may impressed, liked, loved and inspired many things from this world to become like that. So once we matured, stopping all those desires are not a small thing!
Some of us getting matured at some point, and we come to know that, Our longing desires are the reasons for all human suffering! So after that we are trying to stop that desires. But most of the people are not coming to know about the intensity and aftermaths of desires. So they are spending their whole life to taste those desires at any cost!
Actually, Do you know what is the fact?
We may control and limit our longing desires. But the humans really cannot leave their longing desires at any stage! Even the Yogis, Siddhars, Saints, God's messengers itself had some longing desires in their life towards humans! Not for self profit!
We have to accept one main thing is that, After we decided to shouldn't have any longing or desires and following that decision to achieve that stage itself says "WE ARE LONGING & HAVING DESIRE TO SHOULDN'T HAVE ANY LONGING DESIRES!"
Verdict
There are two types of Longing and Desires. One is for self happiness. Another one is for people's happiness. Both are not bad! So you choose wisely which is needed for you!
Having desires, passions and longing all are not a wrong thing! But it should be good in all ways! To achieve a stage of BEATIFIED, doesn't mean that you should leave your desires and longing! The myth says, have complete longing desire to come out from normal human life and try to find a God in you! You will be surprised at stage by stage after seeing the miracles that happens positively in you!
When the topic is about Guiltiness, then everyone of us atleast faced this once in our life! Is guilty feel is good for people? How this affects people deeply? How to kill this guilty feel in life?
Being a human, No matter what you did in the past! Suppose, if any of your past activity made big mistake with other people in any circumstances, and it's really makes guiltiness with you, then you are in the compulsion stage of killing your guilty feel which destroys your happy life!
See.. No one is perfect in this world! So, whatever mistake you did, that same mistake already was done by someone to someother in this world! You are not a newly starter of that mistake! And you should also understand one main thing! Since everyone doing mistakes in their life, the victim who affected by you, may also did some mistakes in their life!
As the Karma is so powerful, they may got good lesson by you for their previous mistakes! Consider this as fate! Nothing to worry in this!
The situations only sent you to them to make that mistake! You may think hard to believe! But that is the real fact! If you believe in God, then God itself said,
"I am Guiding you in all Situations! Don't worry about any!"
If you have faith in fate, then
"The mistake was happened because of Fate! Not because of you!"
You are just a tool of fate!
When the supreme power plans something big, then we cannot do anything or stop it even! You just have to nod for it unknowingly! This is called supreme power's play! In very deep to say, To live your happy life, just use the name of Fate to come out from high Guiltiness!
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